Jay Taber
May 09, 2012
Jay Taber, 33, died unexpectedly, Wednesday, May 9, 2012, at Mercy Medical Center-West Lakes in West Des Moines. He was born June 5, 1978, in Newton, Iowa, to Michiel and Beverly Taber.
Jay graduated from Newton High School in 1996, and received a degree from DMACC in Information Technology. He married Alyssa Cleveringa on September 4, 2004. He was a volunteer fire fighter and EMT for the Grimes Fire Department. Jay had worked for Wells Fargo in the IT area since 2006. He was an avid Green Bay Packers fan, a season ticket holder for Iowa State football, and enjoyed attending I-Cubs games. Most of all, Jay loved spending time with his family, especially his wife and son.
Jay is survived by his loving wife, Alyssa; son, Aaron Michael Taber; parents, Michiel and Beverly Taber of Newton; brother Michiel (Angela) Taber of Des Moines; niece, Samantha Taber; paternal grandmother, Lucille Taber of Newton; maternal grandmother, Betty Klingensmith of Newton; parents-in-law, Michael and Valerie Cleveringa of Rock Rapids; brother-in-law, Eric (Leslie) Cleveringa of Harrisburg, SD; paternal grandmother-in-law, Arlene Cleveringa of Orange City; and maternal grandmother-in-law, LaVonne Simonson of Ruthven, Iowa. He was preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Leon Taber; maternal grandfather, Forrest Klingensmith; paternal grandfather-in-law, James Cleveringa; and maternal grandfather-in-law, Richard Simonson.
Funeral services will be 11:00 a.m., Saturday, May 12, 2012, at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Avenue. The family will greet friends from 4 to 8 p.m., Friday, May 11, 2012, at the funeral home.
Memorial contributions may be given to the family to start a college fund for Aaron, in loving memory of Jay.
Online condolences may be made to:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Patrick Larmore
06/12/2012
I knew Jay from coming in and doing business here at the dealership where he and Alyssa bought vehicles. We developed a friendly relationship over the last few years. I am very sorry for his family's loss. I remember the laughs we shared everytime we talked while he was in for service. Jay, you will be missed and always remembered. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. God Bless
Mitch
05/16/2012
I didn't get the privilege to know Jay very long, but in the short amount of time I did I came to realize what a great guy he was. A truly wonderful father, husband, and person. He will be missed.
Evan & Linda De Boer
05/15/2012
Dear Alyssa, Mike, Val & Eric,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you and keep you close to him in this time of sadness.
Tom Ozimec
05/14/2012
Jay was a very good friend and wonderful co-worker. This was truly a terrible loss to all who knew him. My deepest condolences and prayers to Jay's entire family and friends.
Carol Griese
05/14/2012
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Jay was a wonderful person. I worked at WF with him in another department and he was always proud of his family. May God give you strength during this difficult time.
Jason & Kristin DeBoer Brookstin and Jackson
05/13/2012
Alyssa & Family....thinking of you with deepest sympathy!
Mark Taylor
05/13/2012
Taber family - I was shocked and saddened when I heard of Jay's passing. I worked with Jay at WF and we recently have gotten to know each other as friends. My condolences for your loss.
Karen Wall
05/12/2012
Bev, Mike, Alyssa & Aaron, I want to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all and I want you to know that I wish I could be there for you at this time. Lean on God and he will see you through this.
Jay Taylor
05/12/2012
Alyssa & Aaron and the whole Taber family, I'm so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I have great memories of working with him, our lunchtime card games, and what a great guy he was.
Pastor Dan Haggar
05/12/2012
Alyssa, Mike, Val, and Eric, I want to extend my sympathy to you in this tragic loss. I feel so sad for each you and pray that God will give you His grace and strength for the days ahead.
Paula Aunspach
05/11/2012
I just heard of Jay's passing and it simply makes my heart hurt. I had the honor of being Jay's EMT-B Instructor at DMACC. He was a smart and talented student with the heart of a medic - so thoughtful and kind. He is one of my most remember students, and always will be. He had a way of touching people. I can not imagine the depth of your loss and I am praying God graces you with the strength to see you through.
Rhonda Carmi
05/11/2012
Alyssa, I am so deeply saddened by your loss. Please don't hesitate to let me know if there is anything you need I will be honored to help in any way.
Norm & Cindy Kramer
05/11/2012
Alyssa.....Our deepest sympathy to you and your son. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary Eagan
05/11/2012
Alyssa & Aaron - my heart breaks for you. I will always remember his laughter. He could bring a smile to one's face so quickly. His onery ways still make me laugh.
I pray for peace for you all at this difficult time. May the warmth of the memories you have protect you in these difficult times.
Bob Rees, Jr.
05/11/2012
I am very sorry for your loss. I worked at the same company (Wells Fargo) and like Jay, am a "Packers" fan. As others have said, he will be missed.