Mary Madison Hatcher
January 15, 2012
Mary Madison Hatcher, 81, died Sunday, January 15, 2012. A visitation will be held from 12 noon until 3 p.m., with a remembrance at 1 p.m., Saturday, January 21, 2012, at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home.
Mary was born July 10, 1930, in Des Moines, to George and Junie Catherine Madison.
Mary was married 64 years to the love of her life, Larry. She met him at a local car-hop, Connie’s Skyliner, while he was playing music at the Watermelon Stand. He later went home and told his mother, “That’s the girl I’m going to marry.” She spent her lifetime beside him, raising her children and helping with all the neighborhood children, nieces and nephews, and finally her own grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was always there for anyone needing a listening ear or just a cup of coffee and a conversation.
Mary was the epitome of the phrase “matriarch of the family.” She was who everyone turned to for advice and guidance in making life decisions, and just for a hug and a bit of soothing if life got a little too complicated. She defined unconditional love by her acceptance of all her family and their friends. No one came to her home without feeling like they belonged there.
Mary will be greatly missed by many. She is survived by daughters, Linda Spencer, Becky Kaiser, and Marla Dillon; son, Tom Hatcher; five brothers, Charles Madison, John Madison, James Madison, Daniel Madison, and Ray Anderson; fourteen grandchildren; and eight-great-grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by her parents, George and Junie Catherine Madison; her brothers, George Madison, Ralph Madison, Robert Madison, and sisters, Dee Wright, Helen Filyas, Jane Birmingham and two grandsons.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given to the family.
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Jane (Comiskey) Rike
01/20/2012
I grew up across the street from the Hatcher family and it was like a second home to me. Mary always welcomed me with open arms, ready to laugh and talk. In fact, the image of Mary that comes most readily to me is one of her laughing. She loved to tease but was never cruel about it. I frequently spent the night at the Hatchers and one early morning we woke to hear Mary calling for help. We rushed to the living room to find she had rocked too far backwards in her rocking chair, and there she was, on her back with her feet pointing straight up in the air! We had a hard time helping her up because she was laughing so hard (and so were we)!!! My dearest friend Marla (egads we have been friends almost 50 years!) inherited her mother's sublime sense of humor. She has given me some of the best belly laughs I've ever had, and we all know how important those are! I consider myself lucky to have known Mary. She was a sweetheart. Fondly, Jane Rike
Thomas Hatcher
01/17/2012
Mom,, I miss you! I now understand why you taught us the things you did! Going through what we all are going through right now, I can appreciate all of the things you kept drilling into us about being nice and decent to people and to be wise in the way we do things! I really will miss the way you and I would harass each other everytime we would be together! Thank you for teaching every child in our family what it means when mom/grandma says give me your finger, I want to show you something! lol Your in my heart, in my soul, I will always make you proud! I love you mom!!
Marla Dillon
01/17/2012
You know momma....in all my years and all the things in my life that taught me who I am and who I want to be...the one thing that will always be a part of me is doing all that I can to be as loving and beautiful as you were...I won't miss you because I will be carrying you with me for the rest of my life...
Stella Lane
01/17/2012
Mary will be missed by many. She became one of my family members and always had a smile for all. May God wrap his arms around her now that she is at peace and my he wrap his arms around her family to give them strengh during this very very hard time. Becky my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jane Scovel
01/17/2012
I love you more than anything Grandma!! I'll be there with you and you'll be with me forever.. no more silly long distance phone calls.. I know you're right beside me holding my hand and telling me "best not worry about it"