John B. Pogemiller
October 30, 2011
John Bennett Pogemiller, 45, passed away on Sunday, October 30, 2011 after a courageous battle with cancer. A mass of Christian burial will be held on Thursday, November 3 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Theresa’s Catholic Church, 1230 Merle Hay Rd. in Des Moines. Visitation will be Wednesday, November 2 from 5 to 8 p.m. at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway in West Des Moines with a rosary at 7:00 p.m. Burial will be at Resthaven Cemetery.
John was born on February 17, 1966 in Des Moines to Norman and Janeen (Mathews) Pogemiller. He married Mindy Taylor on November 11, 1995 and they welcomed two daughters, Lauren in 2001 and Jenna in 2003. John enjoyed spending time with his daughters, cooking, gardening, and traveling. He was also an avid sports fan, and his favorite teams were the New York Yankees, the Kansas City Chiefs and college football. John worked for ADP in telecommunications for over 15 years.
He will be greatly missed by his wife, Mindy; daughters, Lauren and Jenna; father, Norman; his brother, Chris (Patty) Pogemiller and their children Zach, Cori and Lindsay; brother, Stephen (Monica) Pogemiller and their children Liza, Sara and Luis; sister, Amy (Dan) Trafton and their children Connor and Claire; parents-in-law, Ron and Winnie Taylor; sister-in-law, René (Rob) McCargar and their children Robbie and Joe; aunts and uncles, Marilyn and Marvin Lambert, LeRoy and Carolyn Pogemiller, Jeff and Tammy Lembke; numerous cousins and friends; and his faithful canine companion, Maddie. John was preceded in death by his mother who passed in 1973.
The family sends special thanks to Dr. Robert Behrens, Ramona, Carol Frazell, Dr. Robert Isaak, Dr. Daniel Kollmorgen, Hospice of Central Iowa staff and home nurse, Leann and Dr. Tom Mouser, all the family and friends especially those from the St. Theresa family, for all of their support the last three years; and directly from John, “the wonderful nurses and staff at John Stoddard Cancer Center and especially the nurses in radiology and chemotherapy”.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to the family for Lauren and Jenna’s college funds.
Condolences may be expressed
at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Mario Sanchez
11/23/2011
You will be missed Amigo!,
John had no barriers, he was always happy through thick and thin, He could make anyone laugh any time of the day or even on a Monday. He was a diverse person who accepted everyone for who they were and if you were a friend he really looked out for you. I am really sorry I could not say farewell Amigo, I just came across this sad news, you were light here on earth and I know you will continue to be that light. From the bottom of my heart, I am very truly sorry for your lost, youre John was a great man!
Descansa en Paz Amigo,
Mario Sanchez
Sara Durst Peet (VHS '81)
11/09/2011
My thoughts and prayers for all of you! Sara
Barbara Elias Wagoner
11/07/2011
I cannot think of any better tribute than what Doug Hodges offered up.
I can imagine he touched many more lives than you can imagine...
Thoughts and prayers to you and his children.
With deepest sympathies
Barbara Elias Wagoner
Iowa City IA
VHS - 84
Jim Tussey
11/06/2011
Norm,
A lady from the West Des Moines United Methodist Church was at the Ingathering in Greenfield yesterday. She knew I had been in the WDM school district at one time, and she told me your son had passed away.
We wanted you to know how sorry we are and that we are thinking of you and his family.
Jim and Karen Tussey, Orient, Iowa.
Doug Hodges
11/03/2011
John and I became fast friends when we were very young. My older brothers played baseball with Chris and Steve. John and I would trade baseball cards and keep score on the outfield scoreboard. He cleaned me out of some good cards! We later played on the same teams in Little League and sometimes against each other,but it was always more fun to be on Pog's team. He was always the fastest guy on the team. I never could beat him in a race. We were thick as thieves in high school, both die hard Yankees fans, loved baseball, listened to the same music. If I had a nickle for every time I was riding in his silver El Camino...
Pog was my best friend for years. I'm sad that we fell out out of touch. I think of him every time the Yanks are in the news, and when I hear certain tunes Pog comes quickly to mind...Steely Dan, Rolling Stones, Santana, the Hughes Corporation (!)...
John was one of the most honest friends I've ever had. He rightfully called me out when I was in the wrong, but he was very compassionate as well--every thing you could want in a friend. I've missed him for years and am so sorry for the loss that his family and friends are feeling now. I'm proud to have known him and to have been welcomed into his home by his great family. His grandmother and his father, Norman, were always so kind. Just know that John touched more lives than you could ever know. God bless him...
Alex & Sharon Hanna
11/03/2011
We were very sadden by the news that John had passed away. We had the privilege of working with John at Equitable Life Assurance and we still consider him a friend and colleague.
John was a great young man with a kind heart and humble spirit. We enjoyed our days at the Equitable and thank God for the opportunity to have know him.
We ask that God will bless your family during this most difficult time and that he will heal your pain.
Alex & Sharon Gaddy-Hanna
Brad Howe
11/02/2011
Mindy,
I am so sorry to hear the news about John's passing. My heart goes out to you and your girls. I will remember Poge as one of the nicest, kindest people I've ever been around. I will always hold a special place in my heart for him and will treasure the memory of our cross country trip to CT in the summer of '93 and the fun times we shared at Equitable.
So long my friend, you will be missed.
Carol Sheaff & Phil Smith
11/02/2011
Mindy & Family,
Dad and I are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Barb Klubal
11/02/2011
Mindy,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. It has been a privilege to be your lovely girls' music teacher since they were toddlers. It is no accident that they are the very, very special children they are.
I will miss seeing John's smiling face. May he rest in peace.
Julie Woods
11/02/2011
Mindy and girls - words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. John was such a great person to be around - a real inspiration on how to live life to the fullest and be happy. I worked with him at KVI quite a few years ago and was immediately taken in by his spirit - he was so fun to be around and always made us laugh. May God wrap his loving arms around you and bring you peace. I am sure John has God laughing as we speak.
God bless...
Julie Woods
(Former KVI employee)
Kay Lyons
11/02/2011
Mindy,
My heart goes out to you, your babies and family.
When Poge worked with us at KVI, Seabury & Smith & Marsh, we were not only co-workers but we were family. And yes we had our fights like brothers and sisters! lol
Poge was one of the greatest friends you could have. He will be sooooooo missed by all of us.
God bless you Poge!
With Jim Cleere and Poge, the phone lines to Heaven will be up and running shortly!
Judy Collins
11/02/2011
I too worked with John for several years at J&H/KVI, until my retirement last year. He was always willing to drop whatever he was doing in order to help someone else with answers to questions, or getting something put into production at the last minute. I am sorry I will not be able to attend the services. My thoughts are with his family.
Kari Smith
11/02/2011
Mindy, My thoughts and prayers are with you, Lauren and Jenna as you deal with the loss of John. I know what love you shared, and how important you and the girls are to him. Your grace and ability to deal with all of this, keeping your family safe and normal is truly amazing to me. You and John were a perfect match! Your marriage was an inspiration to me, and your love for each other is truly extraordinary. Your time together was short, but I hope you realize how truly blessed you are to have him in your life.
I am there for you, whatever you need. John - Rest in Peace.
Your Friend,
Kari Smith
Kevin & Jodi Christensen
11/02/2011
Mindy,
We are so sorry for your loss. John is one of the nices guys I've ever known -- always a smile on his face and quick to laugh. He touched so many lives in such a positive way. You guys have been through so much these past 3 years -- I'm amazed at your strength and grace through it all. May God bless you and your girls through this difficult time.
Kevin & Jo
Nicki Teel
11/02/2011
Mindy, I'm so sorry to hear about John. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.