Mark Allen Wilderman
June 13, 1963 — January 22, 2024
Mark Allen Wilderman went home to be with the Lord on Monday, January 22, 2024.
60 years ago, Mark was welcomed into this world by his parents Dick and Lynne Wilderman on June 13, 1963, in Iowa City, Iowa. Mark attended East High School and then went onto the University of Northern Iowa, graduating with a teaching degree. He loved kids and taught in the Des Moines School District for 22 years. Mark will always be known for his HUGE heart. He had a soft spot for the underdog and anyone in need of help. He was a loyal friend, starting with inviting his buddies to his dad’s A&W for a free meal or two… or three or four. Although he had his share of struggles, he rarely complained. Mark lived by bachelor rules. We often had to try and find him during Wilderman family vacations because he wandered off frequently. His Yorkie dogs were his kids and they were treated as such. Those “dogs” were always by his side. He brought his guitar to family gatherings and taught lessons at the School of Rock. When the nieces were little, they actually thought Mark wrote John Mellencamp’s Small Town. Most of all, we will miss Mark’s quick wit and his many shenanigans that made us cry with laughter.
Those left to cherish Mark’s memory include his devoted father Dick Wilderman (Judy); sister Melanie Sesker (Kahl), and their kids Korbin (Ryley), Aubrey and Grace; sister-in-law Angie Wilderman, and kids Chantelle Nielsen (Kody), Brianna and Hope; great nieces Harper and Willow Nielsen, great nephew Kahl Sesker III; and friend Rhonda Froehle.
Mark was preceded in death by his grandparents Bob and Mary Wilderman and Mel and Lucile Roupe; his mother Lynne; and brother Kelly. Lynne is undoubtedly rejoicing with all of her boys!
Visitation will be held at 10:00 a.m., Tuesday, January 30, 2024, with funeral service following at 11:00 a.m., at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines. Memorial contributions may be directed to the Animal Rescue League in memory of Mark Wilderman. Condolences may be left at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Carol Koehn
02/01/2024
So very sorry to accidentally find Mark's obituary online today. I was assigned to Mark's classroom at Brubaker as his "Special Education teacher" for the 2007-2008 school year. He was such a wonderful teacher. The students loved him and so they listened and learned from him and respected him. He was very caring and involved in not just his students' academic life, but in how they felt and all aspects of their being.
His personality was part of why I wasn't surprised to see him at the State Fair tooling around in his golf cart and so happy to be employed at the Fair. He once told me, "I wish the Fair was year round. I just love being here and enjoying all the Fair has to offer." Mark was a definite 'people' person and I am sorry he left this world too early.
May he rest in peace and be the Angel that God intended him to become.
My sympathy to the family and friends of Mark. May your memories help to pass the days and years until you meet again in heaven.
Nicki Heer Manhart
01/30/2024
Dick, Melanie and family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Mark. He was a good guy. I have fond memories of him and your entire family. Thinking of you all. xoxo
Kind regards,
Nicki Heer Manhart
Mark F Siirtola
01/29/2024
My condolences. I have good memories way back from college. Thank you for the heartfelt tribute video. God Bless.
Mike B.
01/29/2024
Mark, you were always a great host with your arms wide open for your friends. I am proud to be a friend of your's and wish you the best in your next journey with the One Above All. Peace ✌
Cory Hall
01/28/2024
Mr. Wilderman was my 4th grade teacher, and that man was awesome. A few trips down to A&W, shootin some bball. A real true, up in your face dude. Saw him a 9 years ago at the state fair and he gotten Gray but hasnt changed. Full of so much life and having a good time. Wish I could have been able to say good bye. But Thank you Mr. W; thanks for being a friend and thank you for all that you did for me, my family. Rest easy God Bless
Connie Berry
01/28/2024
Iam so sorry to hear of your familys loss. Our thoughts are with you through this difficult time❤
Todd Scott
01/28/2024
So sorry to hear of Mark's passing. He was such a nice man. Prayers to the entire Wilderman family. RIP Mark.
Lori Sutherland
01/28/2024
So sorry for your loss!
Mark was both of my kids 4th grade teacher at Stowe.
He came t our house once when he seen our son was upset in class. He was an awesome teacher, kind and caring!
Lori Sutherland
Dave Brown
01/27/2024
Dick & family,
It goes without saying that I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad I got to know your family and I appreciated the bond you all shared. And yes Lynne is rejoicing in having her sons by her side again.
Our deepest sympathy and heart felt condolences are extended to you all at your time of loss.
Draw strength from each others love and support. And cherish the memories you have built over your life time.
Dave Brown & Trudy Hodson (your kids 7th grade math teacher at Goodrell Jr. High)
Cherie Morris
01/25/2024
My sympathy to the family. Have fond memories of Mark spending time in my home. He was a friend of my girls. Later I worked with Mark at Brubaker. I loved Mark as a teenager and enjoyed working with him. God bless all of you. May you find peace and comfort in the days to come sorry I cant make the services will be visiting my grandson in Texas