Cyrus "C.J." Hicks
March 03, 2011
Cyrus “CJ” Hicks, 24, died Thursday, March 3, 2011. He was born April 20, 1986, in Des Moines, to Cy Hicks and Theresa Hanrahan.
CJ is survived by his mother, Theresa (Kevin) Purdy; father, Cy Hicks; sisters, Shelby, Siera, and Jolene; grandmother, Linnie Hanrahan; companion, Natascha Grant; and grandparents, Don and Peggy Purdy; as well as a host of other family and beloved friends. He was preceded in death by his brothers, Brennan and Kirby; grandparents, Jim Hanrahan, Bob and Irene Hicks.
The family will greet visitors from 4 to 6 p.m., Sunday, March 6, 2011, at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens, 121 NW 60th Avenue, Des Moines. A private burial will occur at a later date.
Memorial contributions may be made to the family in loving memory of CJ.
Online condolences may be made to:
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Your Little Sister
02/19/2013
Brother,
I dont know how to start thing..
I do know I miss you so much, it hurts i wish
the pain would just stop and the emptyness would
go away.I love you and I always have. Im so sorry
for everything that you had to go through
no child/adult should have to. I wish you could
have had a happy childhood like you wanted/deserved
dearly.wish i could have helped and change certain things in the
past. All i know is im so thankful to have
you and to call you my big brother. I've always believed
in you even if no one else did, i might have not said it enough
but Im proud of you. No one else could or survive what you had too.
There will never be a day i dont think of you,
it's hard to fight the tears back. Im writing this and bawling.
i wanna get a little peace but i don't think
it's going to work. before you pasted, god gave me the best
memorie of all, you and you nephew emmitt spending time
together. He will always know of you and his other uncles as well.
I hope you can finally rest and be safe.
Been almost 2 years since the phone rang. Still shocked.
You are always and forever a part of me. We were so very close no
matter the time or the distance between one another. I just wish
i could have done more and im so sorry i hope you forgive me.
Me and Emmitt have the best THREE gardian angels anyone
can have. I will hold and cherish all of our memories together
and past them on. I love you and may you rest in peace
with Brennan and Kirby.
Love,
Shelby & Emmitt
Bec
04/27/2012
There is nothing more that I can say but, I'm sorry. I wish you could have fulfilled your dreams with your sister. You deserved that. You will never be forgotten. Again, I'm so so sorry.
aunt betsy
10/24/2011
I miss you so much. I keep expecting to see you walk in my door with that smile on your face one day! I sure wish that could happen! You know I was always there for you, and youn always knew that you could come to me any time. I'm really glad we had that relationship. You know I loved you for who you were and didn't judge you for anything. I hope you are with grandma and grandpa and all of you are looking over us down here. I'm always talking to you all- in my mind I feel you all near me. I love you so much and miss you terribly. When you went a piece of my heart went with you so hold it tight and keep it for me til i get there! Love, Aunt Betsy
cyrus hicks
05/02/2011
icant really put in words the way i feel i wish icould take his place i never knew acually i had no ideal the pain i feel when i got the knews/ every day i think about how i wasted time preaching how bad he mad decicions i will never get another chance to tell him how much i loved him its sow\ hard to get up every day and know im not going to get the chance to tell him how inportant he was to me some poeple say it will get eser but i will never forgive my self for not spending more time with him when i see my grandson i see how much he reminds me of cj wnen he was little i never wanted threr to be aheaven until i lost him nobody really knew him like i did he really was a good person pray to god that i will get another chance to here his laugh when he used to do when i would try to tell him what to do iwill never forget buddy
Tracy
03/08/2011
Dear Hicks Family,
I am a long life friend of Tammy's. I am so sorry to hear of CJ's death. May the lord watch over you in this time of sorrow.
Tracy
Darcy
03/06/2011
Cy
Im so sorry for your your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong like the Cy I remeber!
Tammy Hicks Morrow
03/05/2011
Me agian!!! My heart aches so much to read these memories!! This loss is such a sad one!! I hate to see any parent have to go through these difficult times like these!! Teri i can not even think of having to do this a 3rd time...not 3 children!!! Life just does not seem wright when things such as death happens with children!!! "I LOVE THIS PICTURE !!" He always hAD THOSE EYES that knew how to melt your heart!! I hope u have found peace with in yourself now....C.J.!! IF ONLY WE COULD BACK IN TIME!!!!:(
Paige Stock Grochala
03/05/2011
I can not even read all these without the tears coming. Its so sad that your life had to be taken away at such a young age. Reading all these memories of when you were younger. I remember playing with those wrestlers at Grandma and Grandpas...:( I can remember all the times playing with you and nicole. Altough we had not seen each other for the past few years...we thought of you! I wish so much that you could of got out of the troubled life you were put into. Having my own kids now....I could not image having to bury a child!! So sorry terri and uncle cy!!:( This picture is perfect of you!!:)You will be missed so much. We will remember youe forever and hold on to all the memories we have!! Love you CJ!! Love your cousin Paige
Ray Stock
03/05/2011
My thoughts and prayers goes out to CJ's family.He was always a little charmer when he was little.Sorry for your lost....
Bobbie Jo Hicks Bolek
03/05/2011
CJ,
I remember you at my wedding, (you were the ring barer) you were so CUTE in your little tux, and your blonde curly hair. You danced all night with Paige. Thats how I want to remember you. Im sorry that you had a troubled youth.
Terri Im so sorry its not fair that a parent has to bury a child. I will be thinking of you while you go through this awful time.
Bobbie Jo
Paul and Marlene Clark
03/05/2011
Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you during this time
of sorrow. May your faith in Jesus sustain you.
Jennifer Cleghorn
03/05/2011
Teri and Cy, I am so sorry for your loss. What a tragic way to lose your child, my heart goes out to the both of you. Life can be mighty unfair and sometimes we have questions that just never seem to be answered. I remember when C.J was just a baby and I would babysit, He was the cutiest baby and child I have ever seen. Those curls he had so blond and bouncy. Such a sweet happy toddler! I loved coming over and helping out. C.J. grew up, and grew away. He walked a road we might never understand but it was his road. He was handsom and strong, he had the most beautiful blue eyes, eyes so bright you couldnt keep yourself from looking straight into. He came over this fall and spent the night. We talked all night about growing up, and when he was a kid playing with all those wwf dolls and playing sega. He could down a whole glass bottle of pepsi like that. He was grandma and grandpa's boy.
He wanted to look at old pictures of family, of happy times. We laughed and cryed that night of memories we shared, and I believe he wished with everything he had to be back at that age, being that "little boy" again. When life was easy, but he couldnt go back just like the rest of us. We have to move forward and push on. But we will always have our memories, and they will always be with us, and that is where C.J. is now, right here in our hearts, in our memories. I love you C.J. and I will never forget you.
Kim (Blaze) Harding
03/04/2011
Teri - I am so very sorry for your loss. My hearts goes out to you.
Suzette.
03/04/2011
Gosh Cj, I can not believe this. I miss you so much and my prayers are with you everyday and night. Grandma and Grandpa are with you now and they will protect from all the bad things. They missed you and thought it was tinme for them to see you. Uncle Cy is doing very good and is praying hard for you. He will never ever go a day without you on his mind. You were a very caring, loving nice person and I hope one day we will all come back together again. Right now we are all thinking about you and talking about good times we all shared. I'm very sorry for everything you have went through and if I could have stopped what happened you better believe I would. I wasn't always around you Cj, but darnnit those times we were together we very amazing and will never be forgotten. I love you Cj , I hope you never ever forget that, tell grandma and grandpa I love them and to take good care of them. Make sure you always look down on me and I promise I am going to be the best I can be and stay in school and respect my family and friends JUST FOR YOU!!! I Love and Miss You SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much.
Love Your Cousin, Suzette Hicks. <3
tammy
03/04/2011
Its so sad to see your life ended at such a young age!!! U were such a great part of my life when u were young!!! I was always trying to steal u away from your mom & dad...so u could come and hang out with Ray & I!!!! U always knew how to put a smile on our faces!!! :):) I am so sorry for your troubled times in your life... if only there was a easy way out??? Sometimes we can not seem to get far enough from our demons...but deep down inside you were that BIG HEARTED little boy i remember so!!!! R.I.P. C.J.!!!!! LUV U!!!! luv Tammy your cousin!!!