Ella Corin Hibbs
January 28, 2010
Ella Corin Hibbs, 5, earned her angel wings as she passed away peacefully in the arms of her family Thursday, January 28, 2010 at Children’s Mercy Hospital in Kansas City, Mo. She and all of her family were hoping that a bone marrow transplant would extend her life after being diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia on Nov 20, 2008. Ella wanted to live and fought so hard to stay with us, but could not overcome the many complications of her cancer treatment.
Her personality blossomed during this past year as she underwent cancer treatment at Blank Children’s Hospital in Des Moines, IA. Prior to treatment she was a quiet little girl, but somehow this journey brought out the best in her and the best in our family. Ella taught us so much more than we brought to her. She never complained during any of her chemotherapy; showing us strength, determination, laughter, playfulness, forgiveness, and love. She lived in the moment, seldom doing things half-heartedly. Perseverance was her strength; she never gave up. A lesson we all learned from her while she lived and that we will carry on as we live for her.
Some of our most cherished moments were during the many days we spent at Blank. Ella entertained the nurses and doctors with her lively spirit as they stopped by her room. Ella’s team at Blank was always eager to visit and see what she was up to. Her vivacious personality, impersonations, art projects, wardrobe changes and playing “Name That Drawing” are a few of her most memorable attributes. She never complained about being sick and cooped up in the hospital. She could turn the craziest predicaments into adventures and turned difficult situations into ones that were joyous and inspirational.
She loved her sister Riley, more than anything. One of the best parts of our day was tucking them in at night, as they shared the same bed. She loved to snuggle and was full of love. She wanted to be a doctor or a nurse, she loved to clean the house, loved The Food Network Channel, loved music, art, doodling, making people laugh, photography, and making videos. Ella was a girlie girl, she loved lip gloss, fingernail polish, sparkly clothes, Hello Kitty everything, and shoes. She delighted in going to school and learning new things at the Walnut Street School where she attended Preschool and Kindergarten. Her spirit will live forever in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.
Ella is survived by her mother and father, Pam & Tony Hibbs, her big sister Riley, Grandparents: Jan & John Shewanick, Kum & Larry Hibbs; aunts & uncles: Karen & Michael Mychalczuk, Bryan & Laci Shewanick, Holly & Kip Blake, David and Kristi Hibbs; and cousins; Kyrie, Andrew, Justin, Avery, Carter, Anden, Kendall, Zachary and Asher.
Please join us in celebrating Ella’s precious life. Visitation will be held on Tuesday, February 2nd, at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway at 3601 Westown Pkwy, West Des Moines, from 3:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. The funeral will be held on Wednesday, February 3rd, at Lutheran Church of Hope at 925 Jordan Creek Parkway, West Des Moines, at 1:00 p.m. Charitable contributions can be made to the Hibbs Family or to the Child Life Program at Blank Children’s Hospital.
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monique saunders
07/21/2017
and i still think of her and i have never forgotten her she will always be in my heart and mind
monique saunders
07/21/2017
hello, its been a while but i was ella"s best friend at walnut street and i miss her so much.i really want to know how u guys are doing
Linda Kauffman
02/09/2010
Pam & Tony,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. She sounded like a fun and spirited little girl. I haven't seen you since Tanya & Terran split up, but I have often thought of you and wondered how things were for you. I am so very sorry.
Linda Kauffman (Tanya Boylan's friend)
Tanya Riepe
02/09/2010
Dear Pam and Tony,
I am devastated to hear of your loss. Sending you my deepest heartfelt condolences does not feel like enough. I wish I knew what to say. After the loss of my biological father to leukemia I have been donating to the cause and will submit an extra donation in Ella's name. If there is anything I can do please let me know.
My thoughts, best wishes and love is with you and your family.
Tanya
tanya_boylan@yahoo.com
Peg Mantle
02/02/2010
Pam and family
I was deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter
Ella. I know that her passing will not only leave a void in your lives,
but in the hearts of all those who knew her. My sincere thoughts and
prayers are with you. May God give you strength.
With my deepest sympathy,
Peg Mantle
Lutheran Trust
John & Melissa Burnett
02/01/2010
We are so very sorry to hear of Ella's death. She is such a beautiful child and we know she is now one of God's Angels.
This must be a very difficult time for your family, we will be
keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
John & Melissa Burnett
Pam (Slone)Cannon
02/01/2010
I went to school with Tony and my dad worked with Larry years ago. I live in Florida now - but my mom forwarded me the obituary of your beautiful little girl. I cannot begin to understand what you are going through - I'm so very sorry for your loss. From reading about her - she lived a very "full" life in her short time here. Cherish your memories...your angel will always be close by.
Heather Howard and Family
02/01/2010
Your love and courage is an inspiration to us all.
You are in our thoughts.
We love you, Heather
Barbara Stearns
02/01/2010
Today my husband brought home the Des Moines Register Obituary of your beautiful daughter Ella. He wanted me to see it because I have a brother who is losing his battle with AML leukemia as well. I think my husband brought it home for me to read because my brother is sixty-five, and your little Ella is five. We have eight little grandchildren ages 1 to nine, and I can't begin to tell you what a great loss any one of them would be. My heart goes out to you and your family. My brother has had a good, full life - never long enough. But a five year old little girl should have had so much more. You must have had a wonderful five years with that precious little girl.
Barbara Stearns
Webster City, Iowa
P.S. Was your journey with Ella's leukemia ever posted on a sight for others to follow? For example, my brother's journey is on CaringBridge.org. If Ella's story is posted, I would love to share it with the many supporters of my brother Brian. Again, my heartfelt condolences.
Jamie Pollard
02/01/2010
Dear Pam and Tony,
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of Ella. Although we have never met, our son James was treated this fall at Blank for Cancer, so my wife Ellen and I feel connected to Ella's story. Reading her story brought both tears and smiles to my face. It is simply amazing to me how such a young child could face such adversity and pain with such maturity and strength. She clearly was a very special child who has touched the lives of many people in a very positive way. I am just sorry that she had to deal with issues no child should face. Although I can't even begin to imagine how you feel right now, I do want you to know that there are many people associated with Blank, like our family, that are praying for your family to be able to find strength and courage during this very difficult time. I am convinved, Ella's spirit and fight will continue to have an impact on other children who are dealing with cancer at Blank.
God Bless,
Jamie Pollard
Tina/IMMC
01/31/2010
Pam and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. No words can describe how you all are fealing. We have no ideal unless we have lost a child. May you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss.
Please lean on the Lord for your strength.
Tina