Anthony Mortale
January 02, 2010
Our Beloved Father and Husband
Anthony “Tony” Arthur Mortale passed away of complications from a successful open heart surgery at 8:27 a.m., January 2, 2010.
Tony was born on September 8, 1928 to Vito and Teresa Mortale who were Italian immigrants. He graduated from Tech High School, and worked at his father’s business Vito’s Grocery Store until he served in the Korean War.
Upon return from serving his country he married Janet Joann Hucka on October 26, 1953 and became the sole proprietor of Vito’s Food Market. Janet and Tony were blessed with eight children. Janet died of cancer on February 16, 1969.
Tony was a popular and well respected business owner. In 1966 he converted his father’s grocery store to the well known Tony’s Lounge. While Tony was raising eight children and working at his new business he met the next love of his life Janet L. Brotherson. Tony and Jan married on February 2, 1980. They would have been married 30 years this year. Over time, Jan became not only our friend, but later the mother we lost so early in life. Jan showed unconditional love to Dad and all eight children.
During their marriage there were many joys and sorrows. Tony was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in 1997. Although “statistically” he should not have survived, Tony became a 13 year survivor of this deadly cancer. He even shot a hole in one his first time out golfing after surgery. He was our “miracle man”.
Tony retired to enjoy life with Jan, his children, grandchildren, and golfing with close friends. He also was an avid fan of the Hawkeyes and the N.Y. Yankees. Tony and Jan loved to travel and spent a month in Hawaii every year. Although Hawaii was their favorite travel destination, they also loved to explore other domestic and international places. Tony always loved to say he had been in every state but Alaska.
Tony was preceded in death by his first wife Janet; daughter Jenice Mortale; sisters, Catherine Mortale and Josephine Scigliano; brothers, Arman and Charles Mortale
Although Tony has physically left….his character, morals, and love for his family will continue through the lives of his beloved family. Surviving Tony in his death are his wife Jan; daughters, Nancy Durantini, Sandy Mortale, Julie (Tim) Chun, Charlene Mortale, Theresa (Garry Durnin) Mortale; sons, Jeff and Anthony A. (Kristen) Mortale, II; sister Julia Turner; son-in-law Marc van Aken; grandchildren, Paul and Jessica Hinz, Alex and Brandon Chun, A.J. and Abby Mortale, Benjamin and Harrison van Aken.
Tony had many “roles” in his life, but his favorite role was that of husband, father, grandfather, uncle, brother and son. You will always be our “miracle man” Tony, Dad Grandpa…we miss you and will carry your love in our lives and hearts forever.
Visitation will be Wednesday, January 6, 2010 from 2 to 8 p.m. with family present from 6 to 8 p.m. at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway, West Des Moines, IA with a rosary at 7:30 p.m. Funeral services will be on Thursday, January 7 at 10:00 a.m. at Holy Trinity Church. Burial will be at Glendale Cemetery. A memorial has been established in Tony’s loving memory and contributions may be left at Hamilton’s.
www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Kim Van Gundy (Bowen)
01/12/2010
To the family of Tony Mortale,
My deepest sympathy goes out to your family during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I was very sorry to hear about Tony. He hired me to sing when I was fairly new in town back in 1996. I sang at his lounge four nights a week quite frequently, and I appreciated him hiring me for the job. I'm sure he will be missed deeply by your family and close friends, but also by many who came to know him through Tony's Lounge.
Sincerely,
Kim Van Gundy (Bowen)
Ed and Betty Couto
01/08/2010
our sincerest sympathy to all and especially to our dear friend, Sandy
It will be the little things that you remember....
the quiet moments,
the smiles,
the laughter.
And although it may seem hard right now,
it will be the memories
of these little things
that help to push away the pain
and bring the smiles back
again.
Bob Lawson
01/07/2010
I have had the good fortune to have grown up in Highland Park and
"Snooseville" and knowing Tony since the early '40s. From the market,through "Tony" Lounge. I went to North while Tony and my
brother went to Tech. Their families vacationed together in Hawaii.
In our later years we had "Friday Noon Lunches" with other old friends
from Tech, East, Dowling and North at the Lounge. We enjoyed the pie
made from his berry patch out back, his Christmas candy and cookies
and his staunch support for the New York Yankees. I will truly miss
you . It has been a long and pleasant journey old frien I will not be able to attend your services but I am sure you would understand why. May
GOD Bless.....
Becky Rice (Ray)
01/07/2010
"I like to believe that when we lose someone close to us they still live through us and give us strength. The time we have spent with those we've lost makes them part of us." I am glad to have worked for Tony. I will and have always carried special memories with me. You have lost a special person.
Becky Rice (Ray)
Bessie Allen
01/06/2010
Jan and family,
Peace be with you all and take care. Sorry I can not be there but will never forget you. Love Bessie
Mike Guthrie
01/06/2010
Mortale Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of your father. Big Tony was always nice and respectful to me. He will be missed by many. It's been a tough year for you guys, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Arlo
Kim Drenth and family
01/06/2010
The Mortale Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He was a good man and leaves a wonderful family behind him. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Kim, Tony and Jackson Drenth
Deb Ripperger (Murray)
01/07/2010
Dear Jan,
Craig and I are so sorry to hear about Tony. Please know that you are in our thoughts in prayers. Sincerely, Deb (Sharon Murray's Daughter)
"JUDY ANNE " CHIRCH
01/06/2010
Tony always had a smile for everyone and I was very comfortable singing at Tony's lounge. He will be greatly missed. Myself and Jimmy Dick entertained for Tony and Jan for quite a while. I did a single and we also did a duo.
A man that has touched so many lives will live forever. That is how your life is measured, not by just what you have accomplished but by how many people's lives you have touched and made a difference.
Tony will always be remembered with a smile.
Respectfully,
Judy Anne Chirch
Anne (Fulitano) Trees
01/06/2010
Jan and Family,
The Fulitano family is so saddened by the death of Tony. He was a man to be admired. So loving and soft spoken and his children were the love of his life.
Since we are cousins to the Mortales we have fond memories of fun times. There were six children in our family so when we did get together there were a lot of kids! Most of my siblings remember the times we went to Tony's house on Christmas afternoon. The food and fun was great! Tony and Jan were such gracious hosts to the entire family.
We also remember the family picnics at Saylorville with many "Mortale" family members. As the family has grown and many have left the area from both families the numbers have changed but we still enjoy our times with Tony and his family.
All of my siblings Dave, Jeannie, Joy, John and Jill want to express our deepest sympathies to the entire Mortale family with this most recent loss. The Mortale family has experienced such sorrow and losses these past few years and most recently the past few months that our hearts go out to them.
May they all live in our hearts and in our memories.
Love,
Anne
Connie Hernandez-Limke
01/06/2010
To my friend Theresa and Family:
I am so very sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I talked to my dad, Raul, about "Tonys" lounge; he has fond memories of going there and of your dad as well. We send our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Theresa, please know I pray for a million angels to bring you peace and comfort; now and the difficult days to come. Love you girl, Connie
Julie Lawson Young
01/05/2010
Dear Jan and family, I was so sorry to hear about Tony.He was a wonderful man.One of my great memories is when I was about 8 months pregnant with my oldest,(who will be 36 in Feb)and Mom and Dad and John and I were at the bar. I couldn't drink of course,so Tony made me a Shirley Temple extra cherries.Well I kept asking for another cherry,so he finally just put a whole bowl in front of me!!! He was taking care of a pregnant woman's cravings!! I know you all have lots of wonderful memories. Talk about them often and he will always be with you. God bless you all at this sorrowful time. Sincerely, Julie Lawson Young.
Mark Wolford
01/05/2010
Sometimes in life you meet someone where you know immediately that you want that someone in your circle. Someone with personality, humor and above all...character. I traveled to Des Moines on business in the 1990s, had the privelege of getting to know Tony, both in his business and on the golf course. To this day, his cheeseburgers were the best I have had and the lasagne....my mouth is watering as I write this.
I admired Tony for the way he "carried" himself. Tony was a true gentleman.
I can only imagine all the great memories, you as a family, have of Tony.
God Bless,
Mark
Pam Spangler
01/05/2010
Though I never had the opportunity to meet Tony, I heard many wonderful stories of him from his daughter, Sandy. He seemed to be a truly wonderful and loving father to his children and devoted husband to his wives. To Sandy and the entire family, I send my condolences and my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Cheri Goode
01/04/2010
Tony was an exemplary human being, well-loved and respected by all who knew him. He was a great guy, a wonderful father, grandfather, great uncle to my Jordan and John and a loving, devoted husband...
Tony, you will be deeply missed...