Brian Joseph Dowd
June 21, 2023
Brian Joseph Dowd, 68, passed away on June 21, 2023. He was born on March 7, 1955, in Buffalo, New York to Mary (née Kelly) and Thomas Dowd. A visitation will be held Monday, June 26, 2023 from 4:00 - 7:00 pm, with a rosary to follow, at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway in West Des Moines. A Funeral Mass of Christian Burial will take place at the Basilica of St. John’s in Des Moines on Tuesday, June 27 at 10:00 am. Burial will take place at 3:00 pm following the Mass at Mount Calvary Cemetery in Imogene, IA.
After graduating from Amherst High School in 1972, Brian attended Oswego State University of New York, and graduated in 1976 with a bachelor’s degree in meteorology. After college, he took a job as a weather data processor in Newark, OH. He was hired at the National Weather Service in Chicago, which led to a transfer to Des Moines in 1982. Brian graduated with a Juris Doctor degree from Drake University Law School in 1992. He primarily practiced Social Security - Disability law for 31 years, and was passionate about fighting for justice for the marginalized, oppressed, and the unborn. He was an active member of the Knights of Columbus, and the board president of Iowa Right to Life.
Brian met the love of his life, Theresa McDonald, in 1983, and made her his wife on May 19, 1984. They spent 40 happy years together with their six children, beautiful grandchildren, and their mutual love for travel, music, and adventure.
Brian was known for his unshakeable Catholic faith, his love for history, music, genealogy, learning languages, reading, documentaries, comedy shows, and most of all, travel.
Brian was always up for an adventure, whether it was a months-long bus trip around the country in high school, hiking mountains, biking all around the US and Ireland, or hitchhiking in Canada and Mexico. He jumped at any chance to go on a cross-country road trip to visit friends, to take a vacation, to visit another country, or just to drive to the grocery store. He studied German, and studied abroad in Germany when he was 13, and again at 15, which he credited with drawing him out of his shell in his teen years.
He loved to search for distant relatives in his ancestral home of Ireland. A family trip to Ireland in 2019 included a visit to his second cousin who owns a butcher shop in Dingle. His most recent solo excursion was to Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, also in 2019. He shared a video of his paragliding adventure in Rio to anyone who would watch it.
Brian is also fondly remembered for energetically leading classic Irish songs for the family’s annual St. Patrick’s Day party, which he began 45 years ago, and enjoyed singing karaoke with family and friends.
Brian is survived by his wife, Theresa; his children, Bridget (Seth) Goldstein of Baltimore, MD, Tom (Skyler) Dowd of Austin, TX, Danny (Sarah) Dowd of Ankeny, Mary (Alex) Fleming of Urbandale, Michael Dowd of West Des Moines, and Lizzy Dowd (Adam Ullerich) of Des Moines, IA; his grandchildren, Stella Goldstein, Eliza Dowd, Emmett Ullerich, and an unborn baby girl Dowd; his brothers, Tom Dowd (Mary), and Mike Dowd (Leslie), his sister, Mary Ann Dowd, his brothers-in-law, Jerry (Anne) McDonald, Pat (Mary) McDonald; and many beloved nieces, nephews, godchildren and lifelong friends.
He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Jean Dowd, and his brother-in-law Mike Harrington.
Brian drew inspiration from a quote from J.R.R. Tolkien’s The Lord of the Rings: “The day may come when the courage of men fails, but today is not that day. Today we fight.” Brian’s courage and grace through his fight against brain cancer has inspired many, and his steadfast pursuit of his convictions are an example we can all learn from.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests giving to the Iowa Right to Life Committee Education Fund, 1450 E 33rd St, Des Moines, IA 50317, or to the National Brain Tumor Society at nbtsevents.braintumor.org/BrianDowd.
Kevin McCrindle
07/17/2023
My condolences to the Dowd family. I received a copy of Brian's obituary from the Iowa State Bar Association. Unfortunately, our personal or professional paths did not meet. That is my loss as he was kind of person that all of us would have liked to have spent some time with. As a fellow attorney, he represented our profession well and made Iowa a better place to live. His example will be an influence on me the rest of my days. Phil.4:6
Sandy P.
07/05/2023
Theresa - on behalf of the Allied Legal Affairs team at Alliance Defending Freedom, I just wanted to write a brief note of sympathy for Brian's passing. He was an Allied Attorney with us and we so appreciated the work he did. We are praying for you and your family during this time - so sorry for your loss. -Sandy and the Allied Legal Affairs Team
Marc Perry
06/30/2023
Hi Brian, it's me, Marc⎯⎯
I'm thinking of you strongly since I learned of your passing. I see your face vividly and I hear your laughter. I pray that your spirit is free and untethered as you soar easily through the bardos of this dense physical plane.
marcperryphd@gmail.com
Betty Wolfe
06/29/2023
Theresa and family,
Steve and I were so sorry to hear about Brian. He will be dearly missed by all of you.
I hope that you can support each other and get all the help that is available to you to maneuver this sad journey. Prayers for you all.
Mary Pat Crowley
06/27/2023
Dear Theresa and family, So very sorry for your loss. Brian was an exceptional man. Praying for you at this most difficult time.
Joe Japuntich, Bourbon, Missouri
06/24/2023
Dear Theresa and family , I am so sorry for the loss of a great man I only met Brian once many years ago but heard from my brother Steve all about you and Brians commitment to the Pro-Life movement. May God Bless you all .
Rev. Donna and Rev. Diane Joseph
06/23/2023
Dearest ones, it was a great honor to have such a fine man, your beloved Brian, for Iowa Right to Life meetings at our Church; Unity Evangelical Lutheran. He was, and STILL IS, a marvelous servant of his Lord and Savior, Christ Jesus. In your time of sorrow, know that your loved one Brian, is praying for you and cheering you on to fight the good fight of faith.
Gayla Jones
06/22/2023
Theresa & Family,
Im so sorry for your loss ✝ Im praying peace, love and comfort in your time of need. At last, Brian is free and walking pain free in paradise. All my love and prayers!
Gayla
Dan and Virginia Bishop
06/22/2023
Dear Theresa and all the Dowd family,
The tribute to Brian is perfect. Reminds us of another LOTR saying that Brian, who loved his travels, would enjoy: "Not All Who Wander Are Lost". May the Angels lead him into Paradise. May grace surround and uplift your spirits at this sad time. May Brian rest now in peace, in God's loving arms. Sending love and hugs, and know our prayers continue for all.
Morris Hayes_Wells Fargo
06/22/2023
My condolences to the Dowd Family. Praying that you and the family find comfort during this difficult time. May God continue to keep you know and going forward.
Sarah Conway
06/22/2023
Dear Theresa, Bridget, Tommy, Danny, Mary, Michael, & Lizzy, I am so sorry for your loss. This is such a hard thing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. ♥ Sarah
Frank & Melanie Hansman
06/22/2023
Theresa & Family, we are so sorry for the passing of Brian. We will continue to keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. May you find peace and comfort in our Lord Jesus Christ.
Hope Duval
06/22/2023
Our deepest condolences on the loss of a great and longtime friend. Brian will be missed deeply in our hearts. Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Hope & Jim Duval
Wayne and Mary Ringer
06/21/2023
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Wayne and Mary Ringer and family
Michele Hillaker
06/21/2023
Dear Theresa and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts are breaking at your loss. Praying for Brian and your family.
Love ,
The Hillaker Family