Evelyn Whitcher
October 16, 2022
Evelyn Catherine Whitcher, age 89, passed away October 16, 2022. Born December 27, 1932 in Parkston, South Dakota, to Mathias Christ Gau and Floranna Mary Smith-Gau. She was the oldest of 9 children. She moved to Des Moines as a young adult and on April 7, 1958 she married Richard William Whitcher in Des Moines, Iowa.
Evelyn and Richard shared their life together of 44 years on the southside of Des Moines where they raised their two daughters, Rebecca “Becky” and Roberta “Bobbie Lynn’. Their life was filled with wonderful friends and loving memories. Their favorite was spending summers and winters in Minnesota. Evelyn was a stay home mom until the girls were both in school fulltime. She then became active in their school activities, including Homeroom Mother, Playground Liaison and held several roles on the PTA. As the girls moved on in school, she began working for Northwestern Bell which is now CenturyLink. She retired in 1994. She and Richard made countless trips to visit their kids, put thousands of miles on their snowmobiles in Wisconsin, and made several road trips around the country before Richard’s passing in 2002.
Her daughters married husbands (Steve and Tim) whom she loved like sons. Becky and Steve had a daughter, Erin, she loved more than anyone truly knew. She was a mom and grandma to all though – she loved unconditionally.
For the last 20 years, Evelyn’s determination and spirit only strengthened. She was very active with St. Anthony Catholic Church where her spiritual strength fueled her. She was honored to be recognized with a Pillar of the Parish Award in 2019. She prayed for all and her prayer list could never be too long. She took every opportunity to feed anyone she could. The priests and deacons often benefited from her love to cook for others.
She was the first to admit she wasn’t perfect, but she only wanted to be loved. She had a beautiful, loving, generous heart. She lit up any room and was the life of every party. She had a passion for her family, friends and hot sausage sandwiches.
Evelyn is survived by her sisters, Darlene Campo of Des Moines, Iowa and Eileen Gau of South English, Iowa; daughters; Rebecca (Steven) Wood of Rogers, Arkansas and Bobbie (Tim) Riley of Batavia, Illinois; granddaughter, Erin Elizabeth Wood of Champaign, Illinois; and many nieces and nephews.
Visitation will be held Thursday, October 20, 2022 from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. with the Rosary prayed at 7:00 p.m. at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday, October 21st at 11:00 a.m. at St. Anthony’s Catholic Church, 15 Indianola Avenue followed by burial at Glendale Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Anthony Catholic Church.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
DeeJay Keller
10/28/2022
Evelyn was a very dear friend to all of the McDowell family. We have been friends with Evelyn and Richard for over 50 years . Evelyn was so kind and good and a wonderful woman of faith. Rest In Peace dear friend. Deejay, Julie, Carrie and Matt
Jack Gooding
10/21/2022
Very sorry for your loss,I worked with Richard and we hung around with when we went to East high school. I new your grandma also she was a very nice lady. Again I am sorry for your loss.
Jack Gooding
Maria Arboleda
10/21/2022
Bobbie...My most sincere condolences for you and your family. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ellen Celsi
10/20/2022
Dear Family
I was saddened to hear Evelyn passed away on October 16th. We were both at Edgewater and I often sat at the same table for meals.
I enjoyed her love of the rosary which she helped on before the 4:00 mass.
Evelyn will be missed by all her family and friends.
Catherine Campo Hohler
10/20/2022
Bobbie and Becky,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Evelyn was always so kind and caring to me. I will miss her boisterous laugh and sense of humor. I always enjoyed being around her and your family. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could have been there to say goodbye.
Lisa Lankford Saltzman
10/20/2022
On behalf of the Lankford family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. May She Rest In Peace
Jeff & Joan Frazier Family
10/20/2022
Bobbie & Tim,
So sorry for your loss. We are honored to have spent time with Evelyn. What a delightful woman! We are certain her beautiful spirit will live on in her family!
Nicole Gonzales
10/20/2022
Bobbie, I am so sorry for your loss, my condolences to you and your family! My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.
Linda Ackerley
10/20/2022
I am so sorry for your loss. She was a very special lady & I was very happy to meet her. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Sue Borowiak
10/20/2022
Bobby and Tim , Im so sorry for your loss. Im glad to have met her! She seemed to be an awesome person! Hugs to all that feel this large loss!
Karen Ramos
10/20/2022
Bobbie, my deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear mother. May she Rest In Peace.
Scott Chidester
10/19/2022
Bobbie, I'm sorry for you and your families loss. God bless.
Donna and Cecil Murphy
10/19/2022
We will always remember Evelyn. She welcomed me to St. Anthony's
the first day I walked in the door and we became good friends. She helped us through Cecil's illnesses and I will miss her dearly.
DARNELL ALLEN
10/19/2022
Bobbie, those we love never truly leave us. Your mom will always be in your heart.
John & Sharon McGovern
10/19/2022
You and your family are in our prayers! What a wonderful life, we know youll miss her but Ive seen where your spirit and energy came from.
God bless!