Ruby Jo Frazier
August 18, 2021
Ruby Jo Frazier was born on April 24th, 1933 in Buxton, Iowa, to Elmer Buford and Joe Anna Bowers.
She was the fifth daughter born to that union. Her mother later remarried and to that union another sister was born.
Ruby has spent the past 85 years in Des Moines. She was Educated in the Des Moines Public School System. At the age of 50 Ruby earned her GED. She was employed at Generations Incorporated until she retired.
Ruby married the love of her life, Edward Vance Frazier, Jr. Ruby was a member of Shiloh Baptist Church. During her years as a youth she was a member of Union Baptist Church. She was a member of Iowa Association of Colored Women's Club. Ruby enjoyed playing cards. You could always count on an all-night until dawn bid wiz game at one of the sister's house.
Ruby loved being a mom and grandma, and couldn't get enough of her grandchildren. She loved spending time with family, and every summer Ruby, Edward and the kids took a traveling vacation and when the kids were grown and became parents, the grandkids often took the places of Ruby and Edward's children in the RV. Another routine was that every Saturday morning when R&B was heard playing in Ruby's household, it was cleaning day - no sleeping in. That routine carried over into daughter JJ's (Jacquetta) household with her children as well.
On August 18th, 2021, Ruby was called from labor to sweet, sweet rest. She has joined her husband Sonny, as she called him, her son Luigi, her parents Joe Anna and Elmer and her grandmother, Julia Harris, who raised Ruby and her sisters after their mother passed. Ruby had also survived her sisters, Mary Carter, Margaret Kirby, Bernice Jewett, Phyllis Saunders- Scott, and Anna Mae Cooley Buckner. In passing, Ruby is also joining 1 grandchild and 4 great-great children.
Left to cherish Ruby's memory are her children Ronald J. Frazier, Jacquetta J. Davis-Harris, Derek Frazier and Ruby's foster daughter Marva Pickett Hughes Fife? Also she leaves 3 brothers from her father's remarriage (Elmer, Victor and Anthony Buford), 19 grandchildren, 36 great-grandchildren and 32 great-great-grandchildren.
Visitation will be 6 to 8 p.m., Wednesday, August 25, 2021, at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines. Funeral services will be held 1 p.m., Thursday, August 26th, also at the funeral home with burial to follow at Glendale Cemetery.
Condolences may be expressed at: www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Marva R Fife
08/26/2021
Mom, as they lay you to rest today, know a part of me goes with you.. my heart is broken, so broken, I knew you were so tired, but I was not ready for this step. Its a step Im taking alone.. I know your only in a deep sleep, and this isnt goodbye or farewell, but see you later.. Im so gonna miss you.. rest easy and watch over me.. just whisper to me sometimes,, my spirit will feel you near.. Im trying not to let the tears fall but I cant help it.. I know this to shall pass.
I love you, your faithful daughter
Marva
Neva Hill
08/24/2021
Please accept our deepest condolences. Never forget, you have friends who love you.
Marva R Fife
08/23/2021
This is just to unreal!! Im so gonna miss you saying THE BOSS is here and everything will be ok now. Being your DAUGHTER was pure JOY!! I cherished nothing more than being there taking care of you.. sending you care packages that you just loved.. I love you more than life itself.. all the things you taught me, I instilled in my boys and Im showing my granddaughter how to be a Lady with style and elegance. Rest easy my beautiful momma. Your labor and service is done Im gonna carry on all the traditions you taught me.. THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY.. and family dont always mean blood.. or you gave birth to them. its what a MOMMA DOES AND WHO SHE IS.
FOREVER MY MOMMA
I LOVE YOU
Your BOSS
Marva R Fife
08/23/2021
Momma, you left me way sooner than I was ready for. Im at a loss right now I just cant believe it. You were my ROCK!! You were always there for me good, bad or indifferent.. Im gonna hold on to all of the precious memories and more.. I wont cry like you said, you said its ok.. Im gonna hold on to that too.. just once and a while will you and madaddy whisper.. there she is I love you.. Im gonna miss you deeply
Love Marva
Roxanne and Kelly Evans
08/19/2021
To the Frazier family: The Evans family sends its heartfelt condolences to your family. Cousin Ruby was admired for her beauty, grace and dignity and she will be missed. May she rest in peace.