Joseph Ivan Gray
December 17, 2020
Joseph I. Gray, age 76, passed away at his home on Thursday, December 17, 2020 surrounded by his family. He was born on December 31, 1943 in Des Moines, Iowa. He graduated from East High School in 1962. He attended Drake University for a time, and graduated from AIB with an accounting degree. He worked in various office and accounting positions during his working years, retiring in 2017.
Joe enjoyed gambling and playing golf. In his younger years, he was president of Highland Park Little League and enjoyed coaching the teams over the years. He was a die-hard Iowa Hawkeyes fan and liked watching the New York Yankees.
He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Peggy Gray; daughter, Kim Hairston; step-daughter, Pennee (Glen) Tracey; sister, Elaine Pierce; daughter-in-law, Ann Howser; 12 grandchildren, Christina, Jessica, Angela, Cody, Andrea, Christopher, Anthony, Nathan, Amber, Bryan, Morgan, and Kyr; 17 great-grandchildren; and one great-great-grandchild.
Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Harold and Elva Ogren; son, Todd Gray; step-son, Bryan Howser; and his grandsons, DeVonte and Malachi Swanks.
Visitation will be held from 4 to 6 p.m., Tuesday, December 29, 2020 at Hamilton’s Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the American Diabetes Association in memory of Joseph Ivan Gray.
Condolences may be expressed at: www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
Kenny/Shari Lincoln
12/28/2020
So, so sorry to hear of Joes passing.. He was one of the good, ole' boys, including Boyd, Bernie, Don L, Gale, Don R & Kenny. All those good, fun times will never be forgotten. Joe was Mr Mickey Mouse, for sure, and the Highlander was our playground for many years!
Linda Burns-Fuller
12/23/2020
Peggy, you and Joe have been part of my parents group of best friends for as long as I can remember - you are more like family than friends. I just read a quote that says that "Friends are the Family that we choose." & that is so true of you guys. I am so glad that Joe was part of our family. Peggy, we love you and are keeping you & your family in our hearts. We are here for you if you need anything.
Pennee L. Tracey
12/20/2020
I can't believe that you are not here. The house feels so different without you there. You were definitely my dad. One that I never had when I was growing up.. Well until my teenage years. You supported me through school, work, and just the crazy roller coaster ride that we all take sometimes in our journey through this life. Whenever mom grounded me for doing stupid things you always backed her up!!! I will miss our talks, laughter, our hugs, and the favorite meat loaf meals I made you on your birthday , holidays, or just because you 💖 loved it!!! You will always be in my 💖 heart. The memories I have has always been created by the love, strength, and the challenges of life that the whole family have endured. I love you dad.💖 (Joe Gray) I will definitely be missing you. 💖💕❤😘