Ruth C. Tibboel
December 04, 2020
Ruth Catherine Tibboel (90), joined the Lord on December 4, 2020 at Trinity Center in Des Moines. She was born December 10, 1929 to Leonard and Alta (Van Hal) Van Soelen in Taintor, Iowa. The family lived near Eddyville and Pella before settling on a farm by Pleasantville, where Ruth graduated from high school. She attained her elementary teachers diploma from the Iowa State Teachers College in Cedar Falls and taught at one-room schools for several years – one of the highlights of her life.
Ruth married Herman Tibboel on June 5, 1953 and moved to Des Moines. An at-home mother until returning to the workforce in 1963 as a clerk in the Polk County Treasurer’s Office, Motor Vehicle Division, she worked there over 30 years. After retiring she volunteered at the Polk County Heritage Gallery.
The newlyweds were early members of the Des Moines Christian Reformed Church (now Crossroads Fellowship CRC) and she remained a faithful member. After Herman’s death in 1967, Ruth was a sterling example of a strong woman and dedicated parent. She served at church by teaching Sunday School, directing Christmas programs, and with Calvinettes. She was also a Girl Scout leader and went to night school to work toward a bachelor’s degree so she could teach again.
Ruth showered her family with care and, always, food – no one ever left her home hungry. She had a life-long love of reading, enjoyed observing birds and wildflowers, gardening and just puttering around her yard. She was a farm girl at heart and always liked drives in the countryside. Ruth was greatly loved and loving and will be deeply missed.
She is survived by her children Clark (Pat) Tibboel, Carla Tibboel; grandchildren Ian (Whitney) Tibboel and Jenica (Benjamin) Hickey; and sisters-in-law Betty Van Soelen Stewart and Marilyn Van Soelen
She was preceded in death by her husband Herman, her parents, and brothers Gerald, Paul (Pearl), and Lloyd.
Ruth’s family give special thanks to the Luther Park staff and St. Croix Hospice for their excellent care.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to Crossroads Fellowship Christian Reformed Church or the Alzheimer’s Association.
Keith and Theresa Van Soelen
12/14/2020
Clark and Carla Regardless of the age or the circumstances, it is never easy to loose a parent. We feel your loss and send or sympathy. I will always have fond memories of Aunt Ruth.
Dan and Nancy Hickey
12/12/2020
We semd our sympathy on the loss of your beloved mom and grandma. What a strong and lovely person who gave so much of herself to others. You have wonderful memories of her to share.
Marion Van Soelen
12/11/2020
Carla and Clark, I am your mother's first cousin! My sympathy to you! Thanks for that obituary that details who Ruth was, a special servant of God, and her wonderful diverse career!
The angels in heaven will love her! Marion Van Soelen, Hull,IA
Babby Schmitz
12/10/2020
Carla, Clark, Ian and Jen, I am so sorry for the loss of Ruth. She was a very special lady. I know how much she loved her family, as she had so many stories to share. She had a unique gift of making you feel like you were along for the ride. May your memories make you smile as you remember her in the years to come.
Marcia Hamby
12/09/2020
Clark and Carla,
So sorry for your loss. We will miss Aunt Ruth. I have fond memories of all the holidays at your house. Playing in the basement and getting in trouble for sneaking too many treats. Love Cousin Marcia
Carol chumbley herrig
12/08/2020
carla i am so sorry about your mom i used to work with her at polk county treasurer. she was a very special lady may she rest in peace you are in my heart and prays
Ron and Gail Graeser
12/08/2020
Dear Carla and Clark,
Ron and I are sending you our sympathy and love in the passing of your mom. She was certainly a very special lady and a strong Christian mom to you both after you lost your dad so many years ago. Blessings to you both in this time of sorrow and grief. She is now in glory with your dad and with Jesus Christ. Love Ron and Gail