Mary Barfield
November 21, 2020
Mary Gorham Barfield, 88, passed away Saturday, November 21, 2020, at Wesley Acres in Des Moines. Mary was born in Mason City, Iowa, on February 19, 1932 to Clara and Melvin Gorham.
In 1950 upon graduation from high school, she moved to Des Moines to attend Open Bible College, where she met and married Marvin Barfield, of Greeleyville, SC. They were married for 58 years before Marvin’s death in 2011 and raised four children together.
Mary worked for more than 30 years as a bookkeeper for Open Bible Standard Churches. She served for many years as church pianist for her beloved church, Ft. Des Moines Open Bible, where she and Marvin were members since the 1950’s.
Mary is survived by her son, Dan (Linda) Barfield of Ankeny; daughters, Marcia Barfield and Julie Barfield of Des Moines; her brother, Edward Gorham (Betty) of Tacoma WA, and her sister, Barbara Danielsen (Don) of Tacoma, WA.
She was preceded in death by her dear Marvin, her daughter, Susan Barfield, and sister Shirley Sterns (Verl) of Ft. Worth, TX.
Mary’s children wish to extend their heartfelt thanks to her kind caregivers these last few years at Wesley Acres adult day center, hospice home care, and nursing facility. A special debt of gratitude for the loving care and comfort given to Mary by her hospice nurse, Patty Nance, a truly exceptional person.
The family will have a small private burial service at Resthaven Cemetery due to the pandemic. Friends and family are warmly welcomed to leave their online condolences and remembrances of Mary at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com, where there will also be photos to enjoy of Mary’s long and joyful life.
Tina, Jason, Avery& Mallory Ickowitz
12/04/2020
Marcia & family, we want to wish you all peace and love. Mary was an amazing neighbor and we miss seeing her. She always had such a sweet and kind smile.
Cindy Swackhammer Cheney
12/01/2020
Danny, Marcia, Juile,
My parents were friends with your Mom and Dad. They had a great deal of fun together, especially while going to church at the Fort Des Moines Open Bible. I had the pleasure of being your babysitter. You were so cute and your mom would dress you girls up in frills and Danny in such cute suits. I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom, she was a special person. Your father was special too. My best to all of you.
Ed Gorham (Brother)
12/01/2020
I was very fortunate to have had Mary as my sister. I know she sent many prayers to heaven for my wellbeing and I love her so..Thank you Mary for every thing. BROTHER ED
Beth Bishop, Caregiver Support Facilitator
11/30/2020
Dear Marcia,
I'm sending you my profound sympathy at the death of your loving mother. Life gives us all challenges and we do the best we can. May you feel the presence of God's amazing love and grace. Thinking of you at this sad time. Take care!
Susan Gerdes
11/30/2020
What a nice tribute. She was such a lovely lady. We are so sorry for your loss. Gary and Susan Gerdes
Theresa Webb
11/30/2020
Marcia and family~ I had the honor of knowing, having fun with, and loving both your mom and dad, when I was at NW Sr Center. I fell in love with both of them and enjoyed every moment with them. They are beautiful people. Your mom was an amazing, sweet and kind lady.
Marcia, it was so great to get to know you, as well.
Know that I am sending a hug to all of you and thanking you for sharing your sweet Mother with me.
<3 Theresa
Nancy Johnson & Family
11/29/2020
Marcia & Family, my family had the pleasure of knowing your family for many years & have many cherished memories of good times, as well as a few troubling times. I can recall your folks always with us in thoughtful comforting words of prayer & always be grateful that our lives had crossed & always Blessed & grateful with such a Spiritual friendship that we all shared. Thinking of you & trusting your precious memories will turn in to much needed strength in the coming days.
Gary & Kathy Davidson
11/28/2020
To Mary's family, our hearts and prayers go out to you. May fond memories fill your hearts each day. Your Mom & Dad were such staples of friendship and thoughtfulness, in of themselves, as encouragers and witnesses for Christ. They always left us with a positive expression each time we visited with them. They were a quiet strength, soft spoken, and reassuring. We give glory to God for who they 'ARE', and for the privilege to call them, Friends.
Sincerely,
Gary & Kathy Davidson