Andy Eugene Long
July 17, 2020
Andy Eugene Long was born on November 17, 1964 to Ray and Joan (Miller) Long in Marshalltown, Iowa, the youngest of three children. He attended grade school in Melbourne and graduated from West Marshall High School in 1983. Andy grew up in a small town with a close-knit community; his father owned a gas station - the site of many shenanigans - and his mother was the church organist. Andy and his siblings, Dwight and Jody, made up the rest of the church music team, singing for services and leading worship. He and Dwight also ran small businesses in town, including a paper route and lawn-mowing business; on his route, Andy was known for taking breaks to share a glass of lemonade and a cartoon or two with his customers. Childhood blessings also included close proximity to his grandparents, with whom he was very close, and summers at Clear Lake, which left him with fond memories of weekends at the family cabin.
After graduating from high school, Andy attended Iowa State University to pursue a bachelor’s degree in Business Management. During his time there, he was a devoted member of the fraternity Alpha Tau Omega, and he was an avid performer, spending his spare time on campus singing and producing musicals, and his summers on Adventureland’s “Soda ‘n’ Sounds” stage. After graduation, he remained a lifelong fan of the Cyclones, and loved spending Saturdays at ISU games.
Upon receiving his degree, Andy did what most of us only dream of as children – he ran away and joined the circus, serving as the Regional Marketing Director for Ringling Brothers Barnum & Bailey Circus for 2 years. He then spent the next 24 years in event venue management: first as a Director of Marketing, which took him to Dayton, OH, Ames, IA, and Charleston, SC; next, he moved to Wilkes Barre, PA, where he was the General Manager of the Mohegan Sun Arena at Casey Plaza; after that, he returned to Iowa to serve as the General Manager for the Iowa Events Center; finally, he held various executive positions with Venuworks. Most recently, he brought his event management experience to Grandview University as Director of Conferencing.
Over the years, in addition to assembling an impressive collection of photos with the many celebrities who played his buildings, including Elton John, Cher, Neil Diamond, Reba McIntire, AC/DC, and more, Andy also assembled a collection of true VIPs in his life, most notably a young woman named Karen Van Riessen, whom he met in 1990. Like the thousands of people who had previously encountered Andy, she succumbed to his charms – only this time, Andy became hopelessly devoted to her in return, and they were married September of 1993. He loved fiercely, and always kept Karen laughing, even when he was “patiently” playing the piano while waiting for her to get ready.
Together, they welcomed their first child, daughter Samantha, in 1996, and completed their family quartet with the birth of their son Eric in 2001. His family (including two beloved English bulldogs) became his life – his pride, his joy, his strength, his inspiration, his greatest achievement, and his de facto test audience for his infinite Dad jokes. Along with coaching both kids in various sports, he beamed with pride at every one of his children’s musical performances, and he loved to volunteer at their events. As per anyone’s request (or not), he would share their videos at a moment’s notice.
Andy excelled at engaging an audience. He was, in the best sense, a human magnet – he exuded a force that no one within his sphere could resist. He took command of any room he entered, and genuinely enjoyed striking up conversations with strangers – not because he felt that he was someone to get to know, but because he felt that every person was someone worth getting to know. And then, as if his gift of friendship wasn’t enough, he felt the need to keep the people in his life endlessly entertained. Music was Andy’s constant companion, and he knew it was a gift he had to share; therefore, no piano within his sight remained unplayed, no Muppets song was left unsung, no occasion was too formal for a mediocre Elvis impersonation. However, he never did this for the benefit of himself – it was always to bring joy to everyone else.
All this to say that, whether he be the loving husband/father/son/brother/uncle, or the leader in his workplace, or the truest of friends, Andy always knew his role and played it to perfection. His superpower was optimism – an unwavering belief in the good in humanity, the good in this moment, and the good that was still yet to come. It was this “always look on the bright side of life” attitude about his health challenges that made it easy to believe he was invincible. Of course, no one is invincible, but for those who love and remember him, Andy’s spirit will never truly be gone.
He is survived by his wife, Karen; children, Samantha Long of Houston, TX and Eric Long of Johnston, IA; father, Ray (Patt) Long of Ankeny, IA; brother, Dwight (Lynn) Long of Johnston, IA; sister, Jody (Bob) Gibbs of Rhodes, IA; brother-in-law, Verl Van Riessen of Cape Coral, FL; brother-in-law, Mark (Susan) Van Riessen of Urbandale, IA; nieces, nephews, and extended family members.
He was preceded in death by his beloved mother, Joan Long, and his grandparents.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the family in loving memory of Andy. Additionally, close friends of the Long family have established a GoFundMe page to assist with medical, funeral and educational expenses at Andy Long GoFundMe Account
Visitation will be held Thursday, July 23 from 5 to 8 p.m. at Hamilton’s on Westown Parkway, 3601 Westown Parkway in West Des Moines, IA with the funeral service on Friday, July 24 at 11:00 a.m. at The Bridge,10025 NW 62nd Avenue, Johnston, IA 50131. Due to a limit of 100 guests at the church, registration is required at The Bridge website Service Registration . The family invites you to watch via live stream on Friday. The link can be found below.
Andy Long Slide Show and Memorial Service
John & Linda Witt
07/22/2020
Growing up in Melbourne, the Long famiily has always held a special place in our hearts. Were praying for your family.
Love,
John and Linda Witt
Reo Menning
07/22/2020
Karen, I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sending virtual hugs.
Steve and Randi Peters
07/22/2020
Karen, Sammy and Eric,
Our hearts go out to you at this tragic time. Andy was loved by everyone who met him. Whether he was poking fun at the new ISU president from Texas by producing Best Little Whorehouse in Texas for SOV, or talking his way out of a speeding ticket by joking with a highway patrolman, he exuded a good-natured fun, and love of life. May your hearts be filled with loving memories that will be part of you forever.
Sue and Robert Strittmatter
07/22/2020
So sorry to hear of Andy's death. We are members of Christ United Church in Mountaintop, PA . Our prayers are with you Karen and family. May you feel God's presence and comfort at this sad time.
Teresa (Pugh) Vodochodsky
07/22/2020
Andy came along to play when Dwight or Jodi babysat my siblings and I, he became a friend, he was a constant in our church, he was the kid that watched a cartoon with us during his paper route on Saturday mornings, and he was undoubtedly a super-talent in our high school; Guys & Dolls is still my favorite, because of Andy, his smile was bright and always reached his eyes; you knew he was genuine. He was a good soul. The family of Andy is in my prayers.
Eric and Susan Freese
07/22/2020
Andy will be missed! He always made club season a joy, putting smiles on the face of all the boys and the rest of us! Karen, Eric and Samantha, you are in our thoughts and prayers!
Jeff Ahrens ATO Bro
07/22/2020
Andy is a great soul and one of the best ATO brothers. He was one of the first ATOs I met and a big factor in becoming a Brother. Thank you Andy! VTL.
Kristin Merkle
07/21/2020
Samantha, I am deeply sorry for the loss you, your mom and brother are facing with the loss of your wonderful father. You are so much like your dad- full of talent and a wonderful spirit and warm personality. Know that your dad lives in you and will continue to guide you through life. Im sending prayers and hugs to you and your family at this time.
Ms. Merkle
Kirk Leeds
07/21/2020
I am not sure I have ever met someone who could enter a room and almost immediately make you feel like you had just met your new best friend. Beyond a smile that radiated from every inch of his face to his God given ability to give every stranger he met his full attention, Andy was one of those very rare people that made all of us feel better about life and our many blessings. Karen, Samantha and Eric, please know that although we share tears of sorrow with you, we also join you in celebrating his life and the realization that all us are better because we got to know Andy.
Sandy Phillips
07/21/2020
Such a wonderful write up for a special guy. While I knew him from high school, I was so lucky to reconnect with him for a brief moment in Grimes a couple years ago. It was as if I had gone back in time, he was just the same spirited guy from way back when. He has left quite a legacy and his family must be so proud of the man he became. Im so sorry for your loss. Cherish those wonderful memories, I know I will.
Stacey Pentico
07/21/2020
Condolences to the Long Family. I can remember as a freshman the first day of basketball practice Andy was one of the first upperclassmen to come to our group and said "Relax" everything will be ok. This is one team. We are all here to make each of us better. I will never forget that.
Diana Hrinek
07/21/2020
I worked with Andy at True Value in Grimes. He always had a smile on his face. He loved talking about his kids. He will be greatly missed.
Nikki Bloedow
07/21/2020
My most heartfelt condolences to your family. Andy was amazing. I was fortunate enough to meet and get to know him through working with Karen. Anyone who's met him knows, you're his friend instantly. Any time Andy stopped into the office it was a breath of fresh air. He never once failed to make me smile or laugh. What a wonderful human being. You are all in my prayers
Samantha Long
07/21/2020
Just wanted to give credit where credit is due: much of this obituary was written by Robert John Ford, brilliant playwright and longtime friend of my dad. The rest of the family and I are endlessly grateful to him for that gift.
Laura Grubb
07/21/2020
Andy was a genuine man and he will truly be missed! He took great pride in his family and always had a smile on his face! Thoughts and prayers to your family.