Ralph J. Lair
February 06, 2017
Ralph James Lair, 68, passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by his family on Monday, February 6, 2017, after a courageous battle with lung cancer.
He was born December 4, 1948, to Benjamin and Mary (Jenkins) Lair in Des Moines, Iowa. He graduated from Saydel High School. Following graduation, he went to work for Hicklin Diesel (now Interstate Diesel). While employed at Hicklin, he was able to attend mechanics school through Allison Transmission and became a transmission specialist. He retired from Inland Truck in 2016. Ralph’s many interests included camping, fishing, and NASCAR. As a young man, he was a drag racer, and continued to enjoy being a spectator after his driving days were done. He also liked bowling and was a member of a pool league.
Ralph is survived by his children, Kimberly Bush (Brent), Karla Lair (Kathy Lamb), Kathy Jones, Kristin Lair (Kevin), and Lydia Mena-Lair; stepchildren, Debra Ibrahim, DeAnn Ibrahim, and Dawn Ibrahim; grandchildren, Leslie, Erik, Erin, Wyatt, Kelsey, Tina, Cristian, Catalina, Alazaya, and Ethan; sister, Michelle (Steve) Theis; nephew, Brandon Theis; wife, Barbara Lair; and a host of other extended family and friends.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Benjamin and Mary Lair and his brother, David Lair.
Funeral service will begin at 11:00 a.m., Friday, February 10, 2017 at Hamilton's Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, Des Moines. Cremation will follow.
Memorial contributions may be directed to the American Lung Association.
Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.
Tim O'Brien
03/06/2017
Sorry to hear of your loss. Ralph was a great guy.
I worked with Ralph for thirty years. He has helped us out of many a jam with our transmission problems.
We will miss he dearly.
Neal Brown
02/12/2017
Worked with Ralph during the good old Hicklin days! Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family.
Neal and Sue Brown
Detroit Diesel
Mary Davis
02/10/2017
Ralph is the Father of my 4 girls and they loved him so much. Even though we were divorced after 20 years of marriage, he had a special place in my heart and always will. I do feel sad for my daughters having to go through this. He will be missed by friends and family members. R.I.P. Ralph, you left a legacy.
Darryl Hartema
02/09/2017
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Ralph was the Best customer service guy hands down. Many a fire truck answered the alarm on time because of the vast knowledge and skills he so willingly shared.
Michael Cooper
02/09/2017
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Ralph was such a great guy and always a pleasure to work with.
Jim Earel
02/09/2017
Having dealt with Ralph for over thirty years while being with Hicklin and Interstate, i can tell you he was one of the nicest and most helpful guys you could have dealt with. Just a great person just to talk to, sorry for your loss, he will be missed
Marty Parkins
02/09/2017
Working with Ralph for over 40 years is something I will cherish forever. He was my boss; my mentor; my partner; and a great friend. Ralph was all about helping people fix their problems; his troubleshooting skills were unbelievable. We started our working careers together and we retired together. Ralph was one of a kind and I will never forget him. My heart goes out to Barb, Lydia, Ralph's daughters, family and friends. Ralph wouldn't want you to feel sad for him; you should cherish the memories. Ralph, may you rest in peace. I will tip a cold one in your honor because I know that is what you would want me to do.
Stu Hetherington
02/09/2017
I have known Ralph for over 40 years and never new a nicer man. So sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers to you and your family
Gary Richards ITP Sioux City
02/08/2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with
you & your family. May he rest in peace .
Gary Christensen
02/08/2017
We had so many good times playing cards at Steve and Vicki's so long ago. Ralph was always so much fun to be around. He'll be missed. Our hearts are with you all.
Greg and Julie Van Luvanee
02/08/2017
We're sorry for your loss, we will be praying for strength, peace, and comfort for you and your family.
Jim Lair and Lisa Niedermeier
02/08/2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. We pray that the arms of God engulf you in this time of grief and send you thoughts of love and comfort.
Mike & Amy Brown (Jones)
02/08/2017
Our love, thoughts & prayers for comfort & peace are with, first and foremost; the children & Grandchildren of Ralph, as well as the rest of his family & closest friends. May he Rest in paradise..
Lynnette Azcarraga (Christensen)
02/07/2017
Ralph was like a second father to me growing up as our parents were best friends. I have so many cherished memories of him. He was so funny and always made me laugh. A trait he definitely passed down to his girls.
My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family.
Love,
Lil' Nette
David and Kirk
02/07/2017
Karla,Kim,Kristen, Kathy- Our thoughts and prayers are with you all! We are thinking about you.